40 Things To Let Go Of
The Identity Checklist For Women Who've Outgrown Their Old Chapter
With Stephanie McConachy - founder of Nine Lemons Feng Shui and seen by 40 million+ across national TV, radio and press.
Somewhere in your home, an old version of you is still unpacked.
You’ve grown, changed and are building a completely different chapter now. But she's still there, taking up space, still deciding what your home feels like.
She's in the wardrobe you haven't cleared, the drawer you avoid, the box you keep meaning to go through "one day."
And it’s why your home doesn't quite feel like it belongs to the woman you are now.
So it’s time to release her and make room for who you’re becoming.
This is why I created a free checklist of 40 past-self anchors keeping your home tied to who you used to be.
This guide will help you to:
Recognise the 40 things most likely to be keeping your home (and you) stuck in your last chapter
Understand why some spaces feel heavier than others, even when they look "fine"
Use a simple release ritual so letting go doesn't feel like a big, dramatic thing
40 things to release, and one home that's finally ready for your next chapter.
Hi, I’m Steph
Founder of Nine Lemons Feng Shui.
Sixteen years in senior corporate roles across Asia Pacific taught me that energy isn't "woo" – it's a business advantage.
Today, that same strategic lens shapes how I work with the women I support every week – spotting what's still tethering them to an old chapter, and clearing the way for the next one.
Most people think releasing old things is just decluttering.
And while decluttering deals with what's in your way, this deals with who's in your way – the version of you who those things once belonged to.
This checklist is designed to help you spot the 40 most common past-self anchors living in your wardrobe, your drawers, your "one day" pile – so you can let them go and make room for the woman you're actually becoming.